1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:08,840 I couldn't imagine being without football. 2 00:00:08,840 --> 00:00:10,760 I couldn't imagine being without football. 3 00:00:10,760 --> 00:00:12,360 On a Saturday, ÒWhereÕs Julie?Ó 4 00:00:12,360 --> 00:00:14,160 ÒDon't bother looking for her, sheÕll be at football.Ó 5 00:00:14,520 --> 00:00:16,680 Football to me is about community. 6 00:00:16,680 --> 00:00:18,360 You can scream. 7 00:00:18,360 --> 00:00:19,400 You can shout. 8 00:00:19,400 --> 00:00:20,840 You can wave your arms about 9 00:00:20,840 --> 00:00:22,920 and clamber on the people next to you. 10 00:00:23,280 --> 00:00:24,720 It's escapism. 11 00:00:24,720 --> 00:00:28,200 It's a place where people can feel part of something. 12 00:00:28,560 --> 00:00:30,640 It is that sense that for 90 minutes, 13 00:00:30,640 --> 00:00:32,160 everyone's equal. 14 00:00:40,280 --> 00:00:42,480 Home games, I can't walk down the street 15 00:00:42,480 --> 00:00:44,360 without getting stopped by somebody. 16 00:00:44,360 --> 00:00:45,240 ÒAre you still here?Ó 17 00:00:45,240 --> 00:00:46,720 ÒYeah, IÕm here.Ó 18 00:00:46,720 --> 00:00:48,600 Five, six hours before kick off 19 00:00:48,600 --> 00:00:50,360 I would brief my team 20 00:00:50,360 --> 00:00:52,400 that are out engaging with supporters. 21 00:00:52,400 --> 00:00:54,360 Once IÕve got somebody to give me a lift, 22 00:00:54,360 --> 00:00:56,320 it's a case a building the wheelchair. 23 00:00:56,320 --> 00:00:57,760 Carl will buy a programme 24 00:00:57,760 --> 00:00:59,000 from the same programme seller. 25 00:00:59,440 --> 00:01:00,880 A burger, a cup of tea 26 00:01:00,880 --> 00:01:02,160 and then itÕs straight into the game. 27 00:01:02,160 --> 00:01:04,200 It's about going for a few beers with some friends 28 00:01:04,200 --> 00:01:05,720 and then going to watch your team lose miserably. 29 00:01:06,280 --> 00:01:07,640 I get into the ground, 30 00:01:07,640 --> 00:01:09,760 hope I don't crash into anyone or anything. 31 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:12,800 There's a couple of fans that sit behind us 32 00:01:12,800 --> 00:01:14,840 and we talk to them every game. 33 00:01:14,840 --> 00:01:16,880 If Carl is rocking, they will just pat his shoulder 34 00:01:16,880 --> 00:01:18,280 because that's what they see me doing. 35 00:01:18,280 --> 00:01:20,240 To do little things like 36 00:01:20,240 --> 00:01:22,040 get the pie out of the packaging. 37 00:01:22,040 --> 00:01:24,360 That's something I can't really do. 38 00:01:24,360 --> 00:01:26,120 ItÕs helped enhance the experience 39 00:01:26,120 --> 00:01:28,000 just having a personal assistant 40 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:30,520 and actually, it helps me understand 41 00:01:30,520 --> 00:01:33,200 why I get anxiety sometimes in crowds. 42 00:01:33,200 --> 00:01:37,840 I do do a lot of shouting and singing and things, yeah. 43 00:01:37,840 --> 00:01:40,040 You know, there is a lot to be said for that. 44 00:01:40,040 --> 00:01:43,280 That he can do what everyone else is doing. 45 00:01:43,280 --> 00:01:46,000 It's a place where people can blow off steam. 46 00:01:46,000 --> 00:01:48,160 This is the thing they look forward to all week. 47 00:01:59,640 --> 00:02:00,760 Ableist abuse in a nutshell 48 00:02:00,760 --> 00:02:03,720 is anything that is a negative towards a disabled person. 49 00:02:03,720 --> 00:02:07,480 Being targeted specifically for having a disability. 50 00:02:07,480 --> 00:02:10,160 Name calling. Laughing. Pointing. 51 00:02:10,160 --> 00:02:13,640 You know, it's that idea that we're not necessarily equal. 52 00:02:13,640 --> 00:02:16,560 YouÕre somewhat, I don't know, broken in some way. 53 00:02:16,560 --> 00:02:17,960 Language can do a lot of harm 54 00:02:17,960 --> 00:02:19,440 and it can be really powerful. 55 00:02:19,440 --> 00:02:20,440 Some things that are said 56 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:22,680 can really, really affect people. 57 00:02:22,680 --> 00:02:24,880 These particular people were 58 00:02:24,880 --> 00:02:28,240 pointing, poking fun and shouting, 59 00:02:28,240 --> 00:02:29,360 ÒR*tard.Ó ÒSp*stic.Ó 60 00:02:29,360 --> 00:02:33,600 But Carl didn't realise what was going on 61 00:02:33,600 --> 00:02:36,080 until he saw me crying. 62 00:02:36,880 --> 00:02:37,680 They just said, 63 00:02:37,680 --> 00:02:39,120 ÒIf you canÕt stand up to watch the game 64 00:02:39,120 --> 00:02:40,560 you shouldnÕt be here.Ó 65 00:02:40,560 --> 00:02:41,880 ÒYou're not fit and able like me, 66 00:02:41,880 --> 00:02:43,400 so you shouldn't be here.Ó 67 00:02:43,400 --> 00:02:46,360 If I was to get up out of the chair to celebrate a goal 68 00:02:46,360 --> 00:02:48,880 then people would probably give me some funny looks. 69 00:02:48,880 --> 00:02:50,200 I use the wheelchair for distance. 70 00:02:50,200 --> 00:02:52,960 Of course I can stand up and celebrate. 71 00:02:52,960 --> 00:02:53,840 I've been questioned 72 00:02:53,840 --> 00:02:56,200 as to why I'm stood in a certain area. 73 00:02:56,200 --> 00:02:59,200 Because, ÒYou don't look like you have a disability.Ó 74 00:02:59,200 --> 00:03:01,320 My challenge to that is, ÒWhat should I look like?Ó 75 00:03:01,320 --> 00:03:03,960 And it made me then question ÒShould I be stood here?Ó 76 00:03:03,960 --> 00:03:06,240 We have seen the conversation regarding race 77 00:03:06,240 --> 00:03:09,040 and we've seen the conversation regarding sexuality. 78 00:03:09,040 --> 00:03:10,480 However, when it comes to disability, 79 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:12,440 there isnÕt that conversation being had. 80 00:03:12,440 --> 00:03:15,040 Ableist abuse isn't being dealt with 81 00:03:15,040 --> 00:03:16,400 as well as it should be. 82 00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:18,160 Predominantly because I don't think 83 00:03:18,160 --> 00:03:19,880 people are confident in coming forward. 84 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:21,480 Like most communities 85 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:23,440 they feel let down by the police 86 00:03:23,440 --> 00:03:25,520 because of incidents previously 87 00:03:25,520 --> 00:03:26,880 and individualsÕ behaviour. 88 00:03:39,280 --> 00:03:41,200 I think to continue removing barriers, 89 00:03:41,200 --> 00:03:42,960 we need to keep educating people. 90 00:03:42,960 --> 00:03:45,800 And it's that bit of empathy I think, as well. 91 00:03:45,800 --> 00:03:47,480 Supporters are raising their concerns 92 00:03:47,480 --> 00:03:49,200 and feeling like nothing is being done. 93 00:03:49,200 --> 00:03:51,000 We would like people to engage with us 94 00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:52,680 build confidence, build trust 95 00:03:52,680 --> 00:03:53,920 and we can make a difference. 96 00:03:53,920 --> 00:03:55,600 If we can find out what's going on, 97 00:03:55,600 --> 00:03:57,680 we can then educate people, 98 00:03:57,680 --> 00:04:01,640 educate staff, educate suspects, educate victims 99 00:04:01,640 --> 00:04:04,160 and educate the police on the best practice. 100 00:04:04,160 --> 00:04:06,080 As fans, if we hear these things, 101 00:04:06,080 --> 00:04:07,800 absolutely call them out. 102 00:04:07,800 --> 00:04:09,680 Don't be complicit in it. 103 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:12,600 There is a safe space for every person 104 00:04:12,600 --> 00:04:14,400 to attend a football fixture. 105 00:04:14,400 --> 00:04:17,560 This is a game for everyone, no matter your disability. 106 00:04:21,080 --> 00:04:22,880 Football, itÕs everything, 107 00:04:22,880 --> 00:04:24,000 everything to me. 108 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:26,120 Memories of my dad. My friends. 109 00:04:26,120 --> 00:04:28,640 ItÕs my family. It's my whole life. 110 00:04:28,640 --> 00:04:31,760 ItÕs nice to watch it like a normal person would do. 111 00:04:31,760 --> 00:04:33,080 There's nothing better. 112 00:04:33,080 --> 00:04:35,440 And to be able to be there and access it 113 00:04:35,440 --> 00:04:37,200 is a dream really. 114 00:04:37,200 --> 00:04:39,680 To be part of it is just, yeah I love it. 115 00:04:39,680 --> 00:04:42,840 My best friend she's 94 now and she still goes. 116 00:04:42,840 --> 00:04:44,200 IÕm going to be like her. 117 00:04:44,200 --> 00:04:46,360 Because that's where I'm happy. 118 00:04:46,360 --> 00:04:48,960 ThatÕs what football means to me.